We are not in the business of humiliating one another, but we love respect. We teach our children to properly greet while passing others. We hold our babies swaddled in African cloth close to us, for this is our tradition. We love our own African language and are not ashamed of our culture and traditions. We are relaxed and confident, and approach life one day at a time, kidogo kidogo , laughing and talking and joking with our family and friends. We do not rush-pole pole..We are not